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How I Ended Up on Alcatraz
We have such horrible stigmas attached to domestic violence, sexual assault/harassment, and stalking. It’s insane how people don’t comprehend the trauma attached to these experiences and that the act of victim blaming reinforces and triggers that trauma, and compels those who have lived these horrors to opt for silence. I hate when people ask ignorant…
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THE WORST
I didn’t know what stalking truly was until 2011. Up until then I had a very rudimentary understanding and thought it was limited to being incessantly followed and watched. I had no idea it also entailed unwanted communication (extending to emails, texts, calls), creating new accounts/phone numbers to perpetuate unwelcomed communication, cyber habits (like location…
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Wading in Denial Like Doechii
Like Doechii I’ve been done dirtier than laundry, but for a long time I was able to wade in denial because the currents of disassociation I had were so strong. When I was finally able to leave my ex and find some transitory safety after a brief period of legal proceedings, I thought that was…
Survival of the ILLEST 